(Proverbs 23:19)
We cannot talk ourselves into wisdom. Wisdom comes from listening and those who are wise have sharpened their listening skills.
Because we are naturally selfish, we tend to be more concerned with talking than listening. If there is a conflict between us and another person, our chief objective is usually to get our point across and make sure they hear what we have to say.
Also, many times when someone else is talking we are not really listening. We may be hearing, but we're not listening. Sometimes we use the time that someone else is talking to think about how we are going to respond. Other times we just drift off into our own little world. While their words are going into our ears, our minds are not paying attention, comprehending and assimilating what is being said.
Wise people are listeners. Let's work on sharpening our listening skills. When your having a conversation, ask questions. Another tool for becoming a better listener is to repeat what the other person has said, paraphrasing them in your own words.
As you become a better listener, you'll not only grow in wisdom but will also become a more valued friend, employee, boss, and/or spouse!
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